Must-have lists are formulated from a head space, but the head isn’t what falls in love or has compassion during inevitable tough times.
Often, the qualities you will most appreciate and honor in your partner are the ones you didn’t even know you needed. Are you interpreting every ever-so-slightly confusing signal you get from a potential mate as an offense to you and a red flag or a sign that they aren't trustworthy after all?
Loosen up and trust that life will send you the love of your life! Or are you able to stop yourself from over-analyzing everything and believe that the person you have met has their heart in the right place?
Believing in the good of another person, even if you have been disappointed, will make your life much more free and joyful.
It's the number one way in which many people sabotage themselves and their quest for love.
If you don’t believe you're love-worthy, why would anyone else think that you are?
However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also be frustrating.
For many of us, our emotional baggage can make finding the right romantic partner a difficult journey.
Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests, learning how to enjoy your own company, and appreciating the quiet moments of solitude.Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists.Or maybe your dating history consists only of brief flings and you don't know how to make a relationship last.You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past.Or maybe you're not putting yourself in the best environments to meet the right person, or that when you do, you don't feel confident enough.