If any of you are single dads, then you know that priorities shift when you have children.
Some of these women will be both career women and single moms, at which they will truly be challenged with time to date you.
Now, there are always exceptions and last minute fun events or basketball tickets that come up, but we are focusing here on the beginning stages of dating, so humor me.
My girlfriends and I have talked this topic to death and we have all said “no” to last minute dates and, of course, been accused of playing hard to get for it.
This does not mean she is not into you, it simply means the timing is off.
You may perceive her as playing hard to get, while she actually is impossible to get we were both still playing on that dating site daily.
Believe me, it is not always easy and I have had to have serious self-control to pass up a date with that sexy man who I had the hots for on the other end of the phone. Guys, women want to be courted and made to feel special.
They don’t want to feel like a last minute plan or an afterthought.
We all know there is often a power struggle in the game of love.The ball bounced back to his court and I ran to get it. I need to hear a guy’s voice, get a vibe and have some sense of his personality before choosing to meet.I have been labeled as “playing hard to get” or “difficult” with many online dating prospects, because I have made a clear choice not to meet a guy without a cool phone convo first.[images: via Gavin Schaefer and Guian Bolisay on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?Register with Meet Mindful for free today—the fastest growing dating site for conscious singles.