its kind of a known fact that tribal marriage rituals were created as a system to insure money doesn’t fly far off a group of people, as well as to minimize threats on a group of people and to minimize the influence of a stronger tribes and groups of people on this said family or tribe.
This is also a criteria of what is considered a ”compatible” tribe.
Families will choose to reject suiters for a lady from an “incompatible” because of the family’s social status, religious values, financial situation, association with other families that might or might not be of compatible nature.
This is just about talking about neighboring families in the same city, imagine how it would be if a suitor was from another country.
But in this post I will try to explain what Meta Tribe means and how it affects my love life and how I chose to deal with it.
Intro to tribes So why does the need for tribal societies to marry off their young to other “compatible” tribes exist?
The following post is written by an anonymous Saudi man.
He could be anyone, his thoughts and feelings are probably shared by many others out there.
What are requirements here for marrying a local woman.
Another reason I want to share this post is I often feel like the western media is portraying a false image of Saudi men.
The illusion is of somewhat brain washed, rather boring men going about their monotonous days without much feeling or thought about life or how it would’ve been had he been born without the y chromosome.
This also applies if a man decides to get married from another “incompatible” family, the family of the man would object almost as much as a lady’s family would, even though its easier for a man to do what he pleases legally, but a woman would need the approval of a legal guardian.
This is what I call reverse tribalism, or Meta Tribalism, and it does exist.